Couples who are undergoing a huge turmoil in their relationships, which they can no longer handle by themselves, can benefit from couple counselling in London. It is not unusual that relationship starts feeling stale and like it has no life in it. But proceeding to point when there is nothing but only conflicts that are left means that your disagreements have escalated into something nasty. You may be headed for a breakup. Though this is generally not the best stage to reach out to a counsellor, couples often try to find help when things are already on the edge of a complete failure.
As per the statistical report in 2017, there were nearly 3 million people in the UK who were struggling with their marriages. Another survey by the Relationships Scotland and Marriage Care found that the greatest causes of distress in relationships were due to lack of understanding, financial hardships and differing levels of libido.
Signs of danger
The initial signs of the distressed relationships may show in the form of disagreements turning into arguments about the silliest things. In doomed cases, there may be a bomb that explodes in the marriage. For example, one of the partners has been adulterous. The question is would a counselling ever heal the wounds you get after such a disaster has happened in your marriage? Even if one partner does the best, a lack of commitment from both the sides would mean that divorce is the best solution. If serious issues like this have occurred in a marriage, it would take a lot of time and sincere effort to heal. Most often, this does not happen.
What you should do?
For a counselling to work, you have to take an initiative at an early time when things still have a chance. If you opt for the therapy later, it would just make things clear that the relationship can no longer be worked out and divorce is the only sane solution. But at least, things are clear and both of you can proceed on to better paths in your life.
However, laying your soul bare in front of another person and your partner who is not ready to believe you can feel very uncomfortable. However, the results you get about being honest with each other pave the way to positive times ahead.
Couple counselling in London can help you save the relationship you have adored and maybe do not want to lose so easily. If your partner is willing for it, at least it shows his or her care!
